Lighting of the Family Candles
Earlier I said that with this marriage a new family is born. In that context [Spouse 1] and [Spouse 2] will now invite [Child or children] to come up with them to light a unity candle.
This will symbolize the birth of their new family. With this marriage, [Spouse ] and [Spouse 2] and [Child or children's names] have confirmed the bond among them that has grown and deepened over the past several years.